Just a frustration post

Shout out into the infinite abyss. She's not how I want her to be. She doesn't want what I want out of life. And I know that I can't convince her to change into what I want her to be. But where does that leave us? It leaves us both dissatisfied. She'll always want us to lead mostly separate lives. And I'll always want us to lead our lives together. And she'll always want us to do everything and I'll only want to occasionally do things. How can we both be happy, and be together? I don't know if there's an answer.